today i met someone who is very interesting...this was the 2nd time i meet up with this person...and i decided to give this interesting person a nickname which is...the "entertainer"... We had dinner together...in our conversation..the "entertainer" was keep telling jokes and grandma stories for all of us...
well..."entertainer" was very enjoy with her topics...
obviously..she didnt realize that her topic was bit lame....those friends who know her well already show their faces and reaction towards her....
in another way round....im trying my best to listen what she wanna say...why is she so excited about her topics...
after that...our conversation has came till an end..
within these few hours..i realized that i became her entertainer..because she s talking non stop and i still show her that im willing to pay an attention to her...im wondering how if i show my uncomfortable expression and feeling to her...will her get hurt...?
it brings me back to ms lai lesson....(my tutor who is teaching communication management)...the communication barries topic and group communication...hahahaha...
i tend to respect her rather than do not listen to her at all...
for those people who do not really know her (like me)...we will try to squeeze into a particular group by listening to them...discuss topics that they like...
it sounds a bit fake...but that s the way for human to interact...
so it s kind of weird for me...cause im those person who straight forward as in the way i talk...i will voice out things that i do not like....
can i say this is the power of COMMUNICATION?!
as you all can see...i already 'kena' the comm poison....
this semester load our brain with all the communication theories and many thing which is related to it...many of my coursemates already 'sot sot'....and the main reason is always the assignment....
today is another great day for me...
will be back to my part time work tomorrow...missing the time i spent here...although it seems so bored..but it s meaningful to me...
sometimes..human need to be alone...
sometimes..human need to be alone...or else...be with somebody who you need to be with+++
